Outsider


I grew up in Northern Ireland and have been a teacher and lived in England, Ghana, Ireland, Northern Ireland, Malawi, Mexico, Colombia, The United Arab Emirates, Australia, Brunei Darussalam and Malaysia.

These are my memoirs which are arranged chronologically by year. Much is social commentary.

Aside from narrative recount, the style is often anecdotal, aphoristic and ironical. I try to soften the heavy social commentary with humour. Some friends have said I tend to 'rant' at times. I don't deny it! Perhaps it is the Irish in me. I apologise in advance then, if that is your impression too.

I do not intend to stereotype various nationalities but inevitably I will generalise for dramatic effect.

In a globalised multicultural world there is an urgent need to identify and face up to our national idiosyncracies and shortcomings. Nationalism has always seemed to me to be a bogus substitute for a genuine sense of connectedness and community. It is a highly dangerous concept when manipulated by politicians to get citizens to do things that are unpalatable to them-like going to war for instance.

If we don't begin to see ourselves as others perceive us - and not as we would like to see ourselves, then catastrophe looms.

I contend we can be comfortable with our heritage and still be able to criticize and even laugh at ourselves at the same time.


The two are not mutually exclusive.

Outsiders are in a unique position to show us our shortcomings because we simply cannot see them ourselves.

I believe that no culture has found the ideal 'solutions' to the challenges of life. Every culture I have lived in has both positive and disturbing characteristics.

In which cultures do people appear happiest? (notwithstanding natural and man-made disasters such as war and famine)

What question can be more profound than that?

The results may be surprising. In my experience, the happiest cultures were Ghana, Malawi, Mexico and Colombia. At the bottom of the list would be England, Ireland and Australia.

I think we need to learn from each other-not try to 'teach' each other...there is a big difference.

Please send me an E-mail if you would like to comment on anything.


Outsider


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Retirement, Kota Kinabalu

Retirement, Kota Kinabalu
This is where I would like to be after I have robbed the bank

Winners and Losers

Winners and Losers
Debate 2008 Winners and Losers Editor at left.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Intamacy and busyness

Many people are lonely without even being aware of it: their lives are not touched by other people

These same  people have it witihin their power to touch other people's lives.

But they choose not to-either out of meanness or because they have anaesthetised themselves with busyness or an addiction.

Aussies and the English

Aussies almost never feel sorry for themselves -they are so like the English Public school stereotype-all stiff upper lip. You have to admire them for it.

It makes it difficult for them to feel sorry for anybody else

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

More Addictions

Five, or is it six posts in one day. Must be a record.

Maybe writing is addictive.

An addiction is something that starts off as useful but if overused can become destructive both to the addict and those around him.

I'd forgotten chocolate, sugar, salt, work, sleeping pills and anxiety.

Yes, I think anxiety and work are coping mechanisms which can be very addictive.

Emotional Intelligence

The emotionally intelligent person is the new name for the oldest personality type in the history of humanity-the 'survivor' - the person who survives by systematic brown-nosing and manipulation.

the 'F' word -he is 'Flexible'

I am definitely emotional and possibly intelligent - but not emotionally intelligent.

No wonder people find English difficult to learn.

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Africa, Addiction and Happiness

The average human is a collection of addictions

In spite of facing the most extreme hardships in life Africans remain addicted to happiness. Just look at them and observe them.

We are all addicted to something: nicotine, alcohol, routines, food, comfort, drugs, danger, sex, excitement, pain, even despair.

Africa was the cradle of civilisation.

The world might be a happier place if humans had not moved out of it.

Vive la difference

Truth is like the childrens' game:

"I'll show you mine if you show me yours!"

There is no absolute truth

Vive la difference!

Truth and children

Truth..?

For children what is important is that 'I'll show you mine if you show me yours'

We should be like children.

For children, the absolute truth is not important.