Outsider


I grew up in Northern Ireland and have been a teacher and lived in England, Ghana, Ireland, Northern Ireland, Malawi, Mexico, Colombia, The United Arab Emirates, Australia, Brunei Darussalam and Malaysia.

These are my memoirs which are arranged chronologically by year. Much is social commentary.

Aside from narrative recount, the style is often anecdotal, aphoristic and ironical. I try to soften the heavy social commentary with humour. Some friends have said I tend to 'rant' at times. I don't deny it! Perhaps it is the Irish in me. I apologise in advance then, if that is your impression too.

I do not intend to stereotype various nationalities but inevitably I will generalise for dramatic effect.

In a globalised multicultural world there is an urgent need to identify and face up to our national idiosyncracies and shortcomings. Nationalism has always seemed to me to be a bogus substitute for a genuine sense of connectedness and community. It is a highly dangerous concept when manipulated by politicians to get citizens to do things that are unpalatable to them-like going to war for instance.

If we don't begin to see ourselves as others perceive us - and not as we would like to see ourselves, then catastrophe looms.

I contend we can be comfortable with our heritage and still be able to criticize and even laugh at ourselves at the same time.


The two are not mutually exclusive.

Outsiders are in a unique position to show us our shortcomings because we simply cannot see them ourselves.

I believe that no culture has found the ideal 'solutions' to the challenges of life. Every culture I have lived in has both positive and disturbing characteristics.

In which cultures do people appear happiest? (notwithstanding natural and man-made disasters such as war and famine)

What question can be more profound than that?

The results may be surprising. In my experience, the happiest cultures were Ghana, Malawi, Mexico and Colombia. At the bottom of the list would be England, Ireland and Australia.

I think we need to learn from each other-not try to 'teach' each other...there is a big difference.

Please send me an E-mail if you would like to comment on anything.


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Saturday, June 27, 2009

The Australian disease

Everyone applauds the good intentions of those who 'help' refugees.

But that is not the point.

What westerners (and we Australians) all need to realise -and soon - before it is too late -is that comfortable folks like you need to begin to...'learn' from other cultures how to live (Including from indigenous Australian culture).

Not teach them.. learn from them.

Maybe I should repeat it:

Not teach  them,... learn from them!

We need to learn to be more humble.

'Helping' people can be counterproductive, unless the help is requested. It can make people feel dependent and ultimately resentful.

People, including refugees and migrants, don't want to be patronised-they want to teach us something, just as much as we lust after teaching them to make ourselves feel good about ourselves.

What we in the west, and people in Australia, need to be cured of is this 'disease' we have of patronising everyone else.

'We are so wonderful here!'

We don't seem to have the humility to learn something from people from other cultures who have arrived here in desperation on a boat.

We don't see it as an opportunity to 'learn' something to save ourselves from ourselves.

That is what it is. A blessing in disguise.

All we seem to want to do is 'teach' them to be like us!

Jesus! Who would want to be like us?

We seem intent on 'teaching' them how to integrate into our wonderful Australian culture.


"We've got the answers -just be a little more like us - and you'll be ok!"

What would Chris Lilley say?

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