Outsider


I grew up in Northern Ireland and have been a teacher and lived in England, Ghana, Ireland, Northern Ireland, Malawi, Mexico, Colombia, The United Arab Emirates, Australia, Brunei Darussalam and Malaysia.

These are my memoirs which are arranged chronologically by year. Much is social commentary.

Aside from narrative recount, the style is often anecdotal, aphoristic and ironical. I try to soften the heavy social commentary with humour. Some friends have said I tend to 'rant' at times. I don't deny it! Perhaps it is the Irish in me. I apologise in advance then, if that is your impression too.

I do not intend to stereotype various nationalities but inevitably I will generalise for dramatic effect.

In a globalised multicultural world there is an urgent need to identify and face up to our national idiosyncracies and shortcomings. Nationalism has always seemed to me to be a bogus substitute for a genuine sense of connectedness and community. It is a highly dangerous concept when manipulated by politicians to get citizens to do things that are unpalatable to them-like going to war for instance.

If we don't begin to see ourselves as others perceive us - and not as we would like to see ourselves, then catastrophe looms.

I contend we can be comfortable with our heritage and still be able to criticize and even laugh at ourselves at the same time.


The two are not mutually exclusive.

Outsiders are in a unique position to show us our shortcomings because we simply cannot see them ourselves.

I believe that no culture has found the ideal 'solutions' to the challenges of life. Every culture I have lived in has both positive and disturbing characteristics.

In which cultures do people appear happiest? (notwithstanding natural and man-made disasters such as war and famine)

What question can be more profound than that?

The results may be surprising. In my experience, the happiest cultures were Ghana, Malawi, Mexico and Colombia. At the bottom of the list would be England, Ireland and Australia.

I think we need to learn from each other-not try to 'teach' each other...there is a big difference.

Please send me an E-mail if you would like to comment on anything.


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Monday, June 15, 2009

Officious receptionists

It's not just in Tehran or North Korea that you get beaten like a dog for speaking up for yourself.

It happens right here in Adelaide -every day.

It's just that the treatment is verbal here rather than physical.

I called into the Doctor again to ask if my prescription was ready.

I said..this is a prescription the Doctor made out in error last week

So, after going through the "name, date of birth, address" routine worthy of George Orwell's "1984" I was told in a voice loud enough to intimidate me.

'Your prescripion is ready. That will be five dollars!

As is normal with these vampires, the tone is that of a command, using inappropriate falling intonation, not a request.

So rude!

I said

'No, I'm not paying five dollars.This was a Doctor's error!

"All prescriptions are five dollars!" she said raising her voice deliberatley to a threatening level so that everyone could hear"

"I'm not paying it1" I said, and plucked my prescription from her grasp. She tried to grab it back.

Her colleague intervened - the one with whom I had had the exact same conversation the previous week.

She was conciliatory and the whole thing ended in a muddle with fudged reconciliation all round. I didn't have to pay.

These receptionists treat people like dogs.

Who was it said 'People consent to their own oppression'. He /she was right.

I can't understand it.

I thought this was supposed to be a place where people stood up for their rights.

How it has changed in the past ten years.

It is worse than many other countries where I have lived and which are criticised by Australians as not being democratic.

There may not be "Democracy" in these countries but the receptionists are polite-and so are the police usually.

I don't think I'm going to last for very long here.

Am I the only one who finds it difficult to get any pleasure here?

Where is the joy in such living?

Perhaps another embolism is on the way to put me out of my misery.

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